I am sure when you were first dating your spouse, you wanted to spend as much time together as possible. You would do things he enjoyed just to be with him and vice versa. Unfortunately, what usually happens after marriage is that you quit doing that.
I remember my husband used to say that if he left the door to the garage from the house open while he was working out there that we were actually spending time together because we were in the same "room". That wasn't actually true and our relationship showed signs of stress because we weren't spending time together.
Romans 12:10 tells us to show brother love towards one another. A good way to do that is to be with someone. Spend time with them. Show them your love by giving up something you would like to do to be with them.