Having then gifts differing according to the grace that is given to us
God created each of us differently. We all have different personality traits--and that is a good thing!
First, if we were all the same, then one of us wouldn't be needed in a marriage relationship.
Second, every personality trait has a strength and a weakness and we need a way to balance out. If we focus on the positives of our different personality traits, then we will have a much strong, and happier relationship and will be able to accomplish so much more.
Differences are good.
Celebrate the differences!